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Movie of the Month- Silenced

By Christine “ECKO” Ho, Staff Writer

One movie I would like to see this month is “Silenced.” It is actually a Korean movie that premiered in the U.S. on November 4. It is based on true events, and is actually a bit disturbing. A new teacher that arrives at the school begins investigating strange occurrences within the school. It is ultimately discovered that the principal is not only discriminatory against the deaf students—to the teacher’s horror, the principal physically and sexually abuses the students. The teacher teams up with an activist to fight against society and the principal in order to expose these horrors.

I think that though the premise of this movie is disturbing, it is also inspiring that no matter what, someone will stand up for those that cannot. This movie also points out the negative side of a culture — the fact that one person had to work so hard to fight for the rights of children, deaf or not, speaks of a lack of compassion in society. Although I have not watched this movie, I believe this month, this movie sounds the most interesting to me. Although some people may have to wait for subtitles in order to watch this movie, I give this movie the Movie of the Month spot because I believe it will have the biggest impact amongst all other movies.

Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3BUIreDAeY

Sorority Wire

MGC Promotes Cultural Awareness
As featured in The Emory Wheel

Members of Emory’s special interest Greek organizations launched the Multicultural Greek Council (MGC) this semester, an umbrella organization for special interest Greek organizations that promote cultural awareness and provide an alternative means for students to become involved in Greek life.

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Day in the Life of Bill McDonald: Dean of Students
As featured in The Red and Black

McDonald’s job as dean of students also takes on this somber tone when dealing with the Behavioral Assessment and Response Council.

He said that in dealing with students who may pose an imminent threat to themselves or others, he has had to learn to compartmentalize.

“You learn the coping mechanisms to be very attentive to that student in whatever crisis he or she is in, and you try to help them or assist them in the best way you can,” he said. “But at the end of the day you have to understand that you can’t guarantee that this is going to be fixed.”

Still, McDonald said his job allowed for thousands of other student experiences that sustain him in dealing with the more serious matters – such as being a judge for the Delta Phi Lambda Mr. Diversity competition.

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Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office: 101 Unconscious Mistakes Women Make That Sabotage Their Careers Lois P. Frankel, PhD

By Oanhie “Shinsen” Pham, Assistant Editor

In her bestseller, “Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office,” Lois P. Frankel highlights 101 mistakes women make that sabotage their careers. Mistakes range from what a woman looks like to how they act in the business world. Striving for perfection, obediently following directions, wearing too much or too little makeup, feeding others and exhibiting too much patience can all be mistakes, according to the book.

According to Frankel, a lot of the mistakes stem from women not realizing they are acting in a way that is expected of them: girly and feminine. Frankel gives advice on how to change all of that. The book focuses on how the difference between acting like a girl and a woman can hinder or enhance your career.

Frankel goes in-depth with each mistake, and provides coaching tips on what a woman should do if she finds herself in such a situation. If you find your office space looking like your living room, for example, tone it down (or liven it up if it’s completely bare). According to Frankel, “unless you’re an interior decorator by profession, it doesn’t pay.”

The mistakes and examples given in the book are real; they come from thousands of women she worked with in her nearly 25 years as a coach, trainer, human resource professional and psychotherapist. Input are given by both women and men Frankel worked with around the world.

What I like about this self-help book is that Frankel recommends you not make every tip in her book a goal. After all, you don’t want to be too perfect. It’s a waste of your time. And not everything will pertain to you, anyway.

Also, men shouldn’t shy away from the book just because it’s aimed with the working woman in mind. The mistakes and tips can relate to both men and women. For example, a nod of approval might make you want to not change a certain behavior. So you continue that approved behavior, but that’s all you might ever get — a nod of approval. That’s fine and dandy, but the same behavior won’t give you different (and better) results.

“Nice Girls” is a good book for those who want to know how to be successful in business, without doing too much or too little. Overall, “Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office” is easy and fun to read through; chapters are short and get to the point.

The Origins of Thanksgiving

By: Stephenie “Remedi” Lai, Staff Writer

With the changing colors of the trees and the brisk November air comes one of my favorite holidays – Thanksgiving! While we are all enjoying this holiday with our family and friends, some might wonder where this tradition came from.

The origins of Thanksgiving date back to the year 1620, when the Mayflower ship arrived in Massachusetts Bay. All 102 passengers on the ship were plagued with diseases and suffered greatly. Only half of them made it through the winter.

An American Indian named Squanto greeted the settlers when springtime came. He taught the Pilgrims how to survive by cultivating corn, extracting sap from maple trees, catching fish and avoiding poisonous plants. Their friendship eventually led to an alliance between the Pilgrims and the Wapanoag tribe.

In November 1621, the skills of the Pilgrims had flourished, providing them a bountiful autumn harvest. Gov. William Bradford orchestrated a celebratory feast for the Pilgrims and American Indians. The feast became widely known as the first Thanksgiving and it lasted for three days.

Historians believe the traditional Thanksgiving dishes from back then have been transformed throughout the years to arrive at what we have today. Considering the advances in technology and changes in modern cooking, this certainly seems to be true. For example, there was a shortage of maple sap during this inaugural feast. With the lack of sugar and no oven, pies and desserts were not seen on the 1621 menu.

The second Thanksgiving celebration was held in 1623. This feast marked the end of a long drought that depleted the Pilgrims’ harvest causing an involuntary fast among settlers.

Since then, individual colonies and states began taking up the tradition. In 1789, George Washington issued a Thanksgiving proclamation for Americans to express their gratitude for an end to the American Revolution. Finally in 1863, President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed Thanksgiving Day a national holiday to be observed every November.

So, as we go on to celebrate this day with our friends and family, looking back on the year and our blessings, we should also be reminded of where these traditions come from and why it is such an important celebration.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Source: http://www.history.com/topics/thanksgiving

UGA Alumnae coordinate participation in letter writing campaign


By Gaoli “Chamomile” Moua, Staff Writer and Copy Editor

The relationships between Delta Phi Lambda sisters are extraordinary because sisters have grown out of genuinely caring about one another that keep them together and unified for a greater purpose even after college.

Inspired University of Georgia Delta Phi Lambda alums informally gathered over 70 letters to contribute to 99.7 FM’s The Bert Show’s “Big Thank You” project in October.

After listening to the Bert Show on the radio during rush hour, Manida “Sobe” Chinratana became inspired to help and discussed the “Big Thank You” with other UGA alums who agreed to contribute hand-written thank you letters for soldiers abroad for Thanksgiving.

With the Pan Asian Community Service’s 7th annual Together Empowering Asian Americans Walk on October 8, UGA alum and Program Coordinator at CPACS Victoria “Juicy” Huynh helped set up a table for community members to stop by during the TEA Walk to write letters for the project as well.

Meanwhile, “it was cute seeing these kids write thank you and stuff,” Chinratana said.
The Bert Show set a goal of 400,000 letters, one for every soldier abroad, but exceeded that goal when they counted 500,000 letters on October 31.

“No real leader in this,” said Chinratana. “UGA alums keep in touch with each other by their own free will.”

Fall Into Sisterhood

By: Stephenie “Remedi” Lai, Staff Writer

October is a very exciting month. Not only does it bring beautiful weather with the changing colors of the leaves that everyone loves so much, but it also brings a holiday favorite – Halloween!

What is it about this season that gets everyone so excited? Karla “Rumour” Schott, Sisterhood Chair at the University of Georgia, suggests, “It’s the memories you have as a kid, the fall weather and the spirit of fun that comes with the Halloween season.”

Current sisterhood chairs reflect on past events while preparing for the upcoming season.  Schott recalls last year’s pumpkin carving contest. Georgia Tech’s  sisterhood chair, Thuy “Prodigy” Le, also recalls their own pumpkin carving event.

This year, Schott and Le have other exciting ideas. UGA sisters will be taking a day trip to the annual Athens Corn Maze, which includes hayrides and farm animals. Schott adds, “It’s a great time to go back to those fall activities you did as a kid and you can do them again with your sisters!”

Le has planned a Halloween costume-shopping event. Sisters will have a chance to look for costumes and dress each other up. It’s also a good way to make sure no one has the same outfit as you. Le comments, “Halloween is a time when sisters can get together and just relax and enjoy the holiday.”

However, while we are in the midst of fall and Halloween, the University of West Florida also takes this time to remind us that October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. According to Honey “Joie” Nguyen, the sisters at UWF will be participating in a breast cancer walk to show their support towards finding a cure.

October also means Homecoming season. Several chapters will also be gearing up for their annual Delta Phi Lambda Weeks. With so many great events in October, make sure to keep an eye out for DPhiL! Nguyen exclaims, “This fall might be one of the best!”

Picture credit: http://monclovatwp.org/images/fall-leaves.jpg

 

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Celebrate World Osteoporosis Day

October 20th is designated as World Osteoporosis Day. Continue to keep spreading awareness and celebrate by taking these “3 steps to Unbreakable Bones:”

  1. Do daily weight-bearing and muscle strengthening exercise
  2. Ensure you are getting enough vitamin
  3. Eat a balanced diet with plenty of calcium-rich foods.

UWF Sister celebrated World Osteoporosis Day by giving out milk and cookies at their campus.

For more information check out: www.worldosteoporosisday.org

Sisters band Together Empowering Asians at annual event

On October 8th, over 20 undergradate and alumni sisters from 3 different Georgia chapters banded together to represent Delta Phi Lambda at the Together Empowering Asian-American Walk. Sisters joined over approximately 1,500 participants in a 2 mile walk to promote civic engagement and unity holding a Delta Phi Lambda banner.

Horror is in the eye of the beholder

By: Oanhie “Shinsen” Pham, Assistant Editor

Halloween is right around the corner, which means it’s the perfect time to watch horror movies, new and old. Chances are that horror movies and series have been playing on TV throughout this month. It’s a great time to watch old horror classics, or even catch up on newer ones you haven’t seen. If you’re looking for a good scare and/or have seen just about every heart-pounding, scream-inflicting movie from North America, check out horror movies made outside of the U.S.

While some titles may be familiar due to its American remakes, but there are plenty of foreign films that you may never even heard of.  Such popular remakes include “The Grudge” and “The Uninvited,” which were originally made in Asia, home to a plethora of other films in the same genre. This website showcases what it believes as the best 50 Asian horror films released between the years 2000-2009.

Although it did not make the list, one particular movie I sought after is called “Cinderella,” a 2006 South Korean horror movie. It loosely has elements of the fairy tale of the same name, but it has nothing to do with fairy godmothers or pumpkin carriages. Because of its name and South Korea’s supposed reputation of having a fast-growing industry specializing in cosmetic surgery, the movie’s storyline piqued my interest.

 

“Cinderella” is about young women with an obsession for beauty. It centers around a beautiful young woman whose loving mother is a popular plastic surgeon. Although the mother seemingly never performs surgery on her beloved daughter, she makes sure to give Hyeon-su (the young woman) plenty of beauty treatments. Friends of Hyeon-su would seek out her mother to perform facial surgeries, but they soon experience hauntings and, ultimately, death. Throughout the movie, details of the mother’s dark past are revealed as Hyeon-su experiences some of the hauntings herself.

Reviewers on IMDB.com gave it roughly 5.4 out of 10 stars for mostly lack of horror. However, if you’re not deeply into horror movies but want to step outside your comfort zone, I recommend “Cinderella.” The movie contains very little bloody violence and gory scenes that may be traditional in horror movies. However, from a long-haired ghost girl to a small doll, the movie has dark elements that’ll creep you out.

Photo credit: www.hancinema.net/

Sisterly Hauntings

By: Kristine “Sumitra” Aguilan, Staff Writer

During the festival of Halloween, also known as All Hallows’ Eve, children and adults alike share fantastical stories of mystery, hauntings, and as of late, gore, in order to spook and terrify their peers. As we can all appreciate a good ghost story during this time of year, we should also keep in mind that All Souls Day, primarily a western Christian religious holiday, commemorates the souls of our dearly departed. In order to honor both culturally significant events, let us share in some ghostly tales from everyday writers published online.

A woman was informed that her youngest sister Sheila, who she had she had distanced herself from due to trouble with alcoholism, was currently on life support for the damage her drinking had done to her body and only had a short time to live. Driving from Tucson to San Diego, she brought her two daughters and her daughter’s partner on a road trip, leaving at 6pm local time to see her long-lost sister before she passed away. Making only stops for gas and restroom breaks, they made a stop during which she used the restroom and was washing up. When she looked up at her reflection and saw her dying sister’s reflection in herself – her eldest daughter even confirmed it, stating: “Mom, you have Aunt Sheila’s hair!” when her own hair is normally straight and Sheila’s is wavy. Nearing their destination around midnight, they were able to pick up a radio station playing oldies based in San Diego. As the DJ came on, he announced, “And now folks, here is the number one song this week from way back in 1962!” At that moment, the woman knew her sister Sheila passed away as the song that came on was titled, “Sweet Little Sheila.” The group pulled over, crying tears and coping with that premonition when shortly after, her eldest daughter’s phone rang and the confirmation was given – Sheila passed away at 11:41pm.

A man had a sister who was going through a divorce – his ex-brother-in-law, David, was living in Phoenix, Ariz., near him, while his sister lived in Michigan with their two daughters and a new boyfriend. David tried multiple times to speak with his ex-wife, only to be denied consistently. On Christmas Eve, the man received a call from a local hospital – listed as a contact, the staff explained to him that David had walked into the hospital, claimed someone was going to die, filled out the necessary paperwork and said, “This is the emergency room, yes?” Upon receiving confirmation from the nurse, David took a gun out of his jacket then said, “Well, you have an emergency,” and shot himself in the head.

The man continually tried to reach his sister and two days after Christmas, she finally answered the call – upset with his sister, his first question was, “Have you spoken to David lately?” Her response was, “No. But I just saw him. He came by Christmas Eve and ran up the stairs to give the girls their Christmas presents and to say goodnight and wish them a Merry Christmas. He told me he flew in from Phoenix special for the girls. I waved at him from the kitchen and smiled and saw him run up the stairs with presents under his arms, I saw him run down the stairs with his glass of vodka in his hand and wave at me again as he walked out the front door and left. […] The funny thing was, on Christmas day when my girls opened their presents, there were no presents from David.” The man proceeded to explain to his sister that this was impossible as he committed suicide on Christmas Eve.

Once the man confirmed David’s identity, they proceeded to investigate his home. Upon arrival, the police and the man found vodka bottles everywhere: in the kitchen, in the sinks, the garage, even in dressers. In his room, amongst the bottles of vodka, they find several beautifully wrapped Christmas gifts, labeled “From Santa” and addressed to the daughters. The man decided to instruct his sister to not reveal his death until after he sent the gifts, otherwise the trauma of having their father killing himself will ruin their Christmases for years to come.

“Angel Pierce” was the oldest child in the family and the mother was one month pregnant at the time. One day in fifth grade during “Angel’s” math study group, a girl in the class, Brittany, asked if Angel had a sister named “Kearra Madaline Pierce” – “Angel” said that there was no little sister and asked why. Brittany explained she had textbook that had the name in it and assumed that since it is the same last name, it may have been a sibling’s. Several months later, when returning home, “Angel” found the mother crying. When “Angel” asked what was wrong, she responded, “Kearra” died – “Angel’s” mother explained that the baby died and she had named her Kearra Madaline, the same name in the textbook months prior. “Just hearing that scared me, because [Brittany] had asked me if I had a sister with that name and I’d told her no—to me, I felt like I killed my sister.” Following the months and years after the baby’s death, “Angel” found that a little girl would call out “Angel’s” name – when brushing teeth, bathing, and even going about regular chores, “Angel’s” name would be called randomly. When “Angel” was younger, it was suspected that it could have been a younger brother calling out or pulling pranks, but “Angel” would confirm that no one would be in the general vicinity when the little girl’s voice was heard. In time, “Angel” came to accept that the voice was the little sister “Angel” never had a chance to meet.

We as a society have come to accept that there are some things we can never let go, but after reading such stories as these, it makes me wonder: do our dearly departed have things they, too, cannot let go?

Do you want to share haunting or mysterious stories about loved ones communicating to you? Share with us at newsletter@deltaphilambda.org and you can have your story published in next month’s newsletter as a tribute to your loved one.

 

Picture credit: http://www.theholidayspot.com/all_souls_day/images/all_02.jpg

Cultural spotlight: Asian urban legends/ghost stories

By: Christine “ECKO” Ho, Staff Writer

Many Asians believe in spirits, ghosts, and the afterlife as a whole. Some horror movies only show a portion of Asian urban legends, but there are caveats of Asian cultures that believe in lucky spirits, mischievous spirits, forest spirits, gods, etc.

In the Chinese culture, the Shen are the gods, deities, or the spirits of the world. For example, shanshen signifies a “mountain spirit.” The word “Shen” can be traced to Buddhism and the religion. Very close to the word is the Koreans’ “Shin.” The meanings and the word itself is derived from “Shen.” Similarly, the Japanese have the kami, which are their deities. The Japanese also have evil spirits; the youkai, the oni, etc.

Since Halloween draws near, let us turn our attention to the otherworldly ghosts.

Because I am Korean, the horror stories I am most associated with regard the gwishin. They are souls of the departed, and are normally girls in white, with long, stringy hair. Hands outstretched no legs, head cocked to the side, red, demonic eyes and a gaping mouth that cries for blood is usually how they’re depicted. They are vengeful, and have usually been wronged while living, or have some unfinished business in the real world.

If you have ever watched The Ring, this storyline involves an otherworldly, evil girl that is like a gwishin. The origin of The Ring was influenced by legends from Japan. In Japan, the name Sadako is famous and feared, and is like an example of a gwishin of Korea. The storyline is very familiar in that the vengeful spirit of a daughter has cursed a video, which kills whoever views it—unless a copy is made and passed along.

There are some methods of warding off evil spirits. In Thailand for instance, children were given nicknames such as “dirt” in order to convince evil spirits that their children were not worth going after.

Photo credit: Newsem.com

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